WILD RIVERS!

WHAT: An all-day blast with wave machines, water slides, sprinklers and wading pools

WHEN: 9:45 A.M. Saturday, June 20

WHERE: Wild Rivers, Irvine (http://www.wildrivers.com)

• This place is great fun for teeny little kids, big kids, and adults alike.
  
• Guests are welcome as this event is not subsidized by FCC.

• We must enter as a group to get the discounted rates, though, and payment must be in cash. We will meet at 9:45 am in the parking lot (look for the FCC sign) and enter the park at 10:00 am.

• PRICES: Ages 3-9: $15.00, Ages 10+: $21.00, Food Combo Certificate: $7.00, Parking: $10.00
• Bring exact change! Because we must pay and enter as a group, please be on time.
• Once inside, you are free to enjoy the park until closing at 6:00 pm.
• There are no organized FCC activities or chaperones at this event. See www.wildrivers.com for more information on park rules.

Questions? Call 714-376-8335.

Let's talk about "Adopted: When love is not enough"

DON'T FORGET TO WATCH THE HOW-NOT-TO-MESS-UP-YOUR-KIDS VIDEO ON THE PRODUCER'S WEB SITE!! If you didn't get the slip of paper with the password, or if you lost it, let us know.

And remember, that password is only good through SATURDAY!

No, it wasn't an easy movie to watch.

Race does matter. Culture does matter. Our differences do matter. What our children have lost can haunt them.

Some of the things I heard as the lights came up:

• They shouldn't have made a movie about a woman who is so deeply disturbed.
• We're so lucky to have been able to learn from the mistakes of the families that adopted from Korea 30 years ago.
• Don't fool yourself into thinking we're so different from the families that adopted from Korea 30 years ago... I hear people say, 'My daughter is absolutely fine with all of this, being Chinese is just not an issue" all the time. They're not here today to see this.

There's a lot of emotion caught up in this, and a lot for us to learn and apply to our own families. What are you thinking, troops? What wisdom can we share?

I came away very grateful that we take Chinese lessons every week. And that we live near Irvine, where all the little girls in ballet class look like my daughter. That we managed to find a Chinese-American day care provider who has become an integral part of our lives. And that we're waiting for a mei-mei, so my daughter will have someone who looks like her in our family.

I also came away a bit frightened. It made me go over all the reasons we decided it was OK to adopt a child from China and take her away from her homeland, and rehearse how I will discuss those reasons with her someday. It hardened my resolve to make more meaningful entries into our Chinese-American community, and to ensure that my daughter makes many trips to China, to understand its madness and its splendor as much as a Chinese-American can.

I'm sure there are a lot more lessons I should have learned....

Adopted: When love is not enough

This may be one of the most difficult, and most important, films you will see as an adoptive parent.

• 2 p.m. Saturday, April 25
• Carden Conservatory, 5702 Clark Dr., Huntington Beach

"Adopted reveals the grit rather than the glamor of transracial adoption. First-time director Barb Lee goes deep into the intimate lives of two well-meaning families and shows us the subtle challenges they face. One family is just beginning the process of adopting a baby from China and is filled with hope and possibility. The other family's adopted Korean daughter is now 32 years old. Prompted by her adoptive mother's terminal illness, she tries to create the bond they never had. The results are riveting, unpredictable and telling. While the two families are at opposite ends of the journey, their stories converge to show us that love isn't always enough."

Folks will get a password to access an educational video at the filmmakers' web site. The password will be good for one week after the screening, so be sure to visit before that week is up.
We're asking for a $5 donation per person. (Our license fee is $150, and we have to cover the cost of the rental space, light snacks and tissues. If we get more than 50 people, we can start knocking some of that cost down.)

Child care (led by a Chinese-language teacher) will be provided for a fee that will depend on how many sign up, not to exceed $8 per child.Check out the trailer by clicking here.

Check out the filmmaker's web site, including reviews, by clicking here.

Happy Year of the Ox

March kicks off with the dance class at the South Coast Chinese Cultural Center on Saturday March 14 - and we have a year full of fun stuff coming.

We'll post details shortly.

China's One Child Policy

• WHEN: Saturday, January 17, 4:00PM
• WHERE: Norman P. Murray Senior Center 24932 Veteran's Way Mission Viejo, CA

Please join us as Dr. Wang Feng, a professor at UC Irvine, shares his research into the incredible complexity of China's controversial one-child policy.

Wang Feng has been studying the policy for more than a decade, and his was the first systematic examination of China's singular approach to human fertility and economic growth.

China's average mandated fertility rate: 1.47 children per couple. China's actual fertility rate: about 1.5 children per couple, Wang Feng and his collaborators found. "Such convergence between policy and reality is extraordinary, even for China," he said. "With the birth rate below replacement level, the country faces serious negative consequences in the long run if it fails to phase out the policy.

Wang Feng, a demographer, said this success is increasing the age of China's citizenry, shrinking its workforce, and a resulting in a disproportionate number of males to females.

The talk will be free, and child care will be provided for a fee.

Please indicate in your RSVP how many children you have, and how old they are.

The policy has touched all our lives. Please come! Dr. Wang Feng is donating his time to us, and we'd like to have a full house for him. We'll have some snacks and refreshments as well.

Getting your Original Works gifts

For those of you who participated this year in the November Art-Making Workshop with Melanie Vogel at the Murray Center and are wondering about the gifts you ordered, here's the scoop.

We expect to receive the gifts very soon and will bring them to the Holiday Party on Dec. 13. If you cannot make the party, please contact Susan at stschabrun@fullerton.edu, and she will work out a way to get them to you.

Celebrate the Holidays with your FCC Orange County Friends!

WHERE: Norman P. Murray Senior Center
24932 Veterans Way, Mission Viejo, CA 92692 View Map

WHEN: Saturday, December 13, 4:30 PM to 6:30 PM

Get into the spirit of the season together with your FCC friends and family at our Annual Holiday Extravaganza. Join us at the newly renovated Norman P. Murray Center in Mission Viejo. We'll be in the Jacaranda Room.

FCC will provide the main dish and drinks. Each family should bring a potluck item, such as an appetizer, side dish, salad, or dessert to share.

Cost: $5 per adult

Dress children in party attire.

We would like to show pictures during dinner of our children and events from this year. Please send digital photos to Ann Marie Rousseau amrousseau@mindspring.com

To RSVP, use the Evite that was sent out on Sunday November 23, 2008, or contact Debbie Kistler http://www.blogger.com/debbiekistler@sbcglobal.net%20 with the number of people in your party and your potluck item. If you would like to volunteer for planning or to help during the event please let Debbie know.

Looking forward to seeing you all on Dec. 13! Happy Holidays!